Top tips on writing your own vows
I always encourage the couples I work with to consider writing their owns vows. Why? Because we don’t often take the time to reflect on why the person you love the most is so incredible and important to you.
It’s not always easy to put feelings into words, and I totally get that. No one is expecting an award-winning masterpiece that doesn’t feel like your words and style. So here’s a few ideas and prompts to help you on the way with writing your own vows. I promise you won't regret it.
Remember this isn’t about wowing your guests; it’s about your connection and speaking your truth to each other. Your guests will be in awe anyway of what you say to each other because it will be personal and from the heart.
Before you write anything down consider if you’re going to write your vows together, will you write them alone or as a surprise to each other? Whatever you choose to do start by finding yourself a space without interruption, pour a drink and put on a song that reminds you of your love.
These few questions will help you get your creativity flowing; there’s no wrong or right answer.
What did you think when you first met, how did they make you feel?
When you look back at your relationship what stands out, why?
Write 5 things you love about them and think of examples.
Do they inspire you? How do they do that?
What does this marriage mean to you?
How do you want your loved one to feel when they hear their vows?